Thursday, March 25, 2010

Car Tire Danger

This is a TV report about tire safety. You better believe I'm going to be checking mine as soon as possible!
(sorry about the short commercial at the beginning.)

http://abcnews.go.com/Video/playerIndex?id=4826897

Facebook | Paramhansa Yogananda: Magnetism: The Power of Attraction (Part I)

This is the second part of the Facebook post today. Enjoy!

Facebook Paramhansa Yogananda: Magnetism: The Power of Attraction (Part I)

Facebook | Paramhansa Yogananda: Self-Analysis and Significance of Dreams

This is the first part of a Facebook post today. Part two is in the following blog. I trust you'll enjoy both of them.

Facebook Paramhansa Yogananda: Self-Analysis and Significance of Dreams

Saturday, March 20, 2010

The Alchemist - fourth obstacle

The fourth obstacle is fear too but this time it's fear of realizing the dream.

Sounds counter-intuitive, doesn't it, but think about this: if we get what we've been dreaming, desiring, programming and working for then what does that say about the people around us who aren't achieving their dreams?

Actually it doesn't say anything about them because we aren't dreaming their dream. However if this kind of thinking kicks in it may cause us to feel guilty.

With the goal within sight, within reach, we may pull back because we're - at least unconsciously - feeling guilty or undeserving.

Ever feel that you have sabotaged yourself in some way?

My friend says she shoots herself in the foot every time her life gets too good. IT'S TRUE. She does. And I've done it myself as well as watching others do the same thing. Think about it: do you?

Coelho says "This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you....help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here."

Think about it. Examine your patterns. Root out old, limiting 'programs' and replace them with optimistic, exciting and joyfilled dreams and desires. Turn those into the objects of your programming and become all you can be!

The Alchemist - third obstacle

The third obstacle is fear. Fear of the possible, even probable, defeats we'll face on the journey.

As a protection against such possible occurrances we always have the opportunity to say "Well, I knew it was a long shot. It doesn't really matter. I didn't really desire it."

IF we say that, we fall back into the old, comfortable, non-scary way of living which, while it feels comfortable, gives us no fulfillment.

Of course there are going to be times when we "fall". When we start something new, we don't know everything we need to know. We're inexperienced. We misjudge. We make mistakes. As Coelho says "The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times."

We keep getting up until some day, we don't need to get up any more. By then we've learned a lot, empowered ourselves in a new and deeper way, developed unshakable confidence and proven ourselves and our commitment with and to ourselves.

Life is better and better every day! "Falls" come less often and are more shallow. We recover more quickly. Our eyes - all three of them - are focused on the prize, the dream, the desire. We realize that we're close to that desire...so close that it could occur any day now...and we're energized in ways we never before dreamed possible.

Onward and upward, standing tall as we dust off from a previous fall.

Next...the fourth obstacle.

Better & Better,
Barbara

Friday, March 19, 2010

The Alchemist - the second obstacle

The second obstacle is love. Why love? Because we fear hurting the people we love by changing, leaving an old way of being / living and seeming to abandon them.



Those who love us desire our safety and thus, fear our change. After all, change may mean danger! They love us and desire our well-being.



(Now I digress from the book with my own experience.) Also, they love us and they love our way of life...our way of life with them.



When I moved across the continent almost all my friends wished me well even though we all were sad at the great distance. A few were angry with me.



Over time I came to realize that, on an unconscious level, they were actually threatened by my actions. If I could make a huge change like this, they could too. At least theoretically. Unconsciously it seemed almost a challenge in their perception.



Bottom line: People tend to avoid change. Are you?



If so, why? For whose well-being? Is it an obstacle for you?



Change isn't always the best choice and sometimes it is.



Blessings to all of us as, daily, we have the opportunity to change.



Better & Better,

Barbara

Video by Deepak Chopra - The Mystery of Consciousness

Deepak Chopra's intro talkon the Mystery of Consciousness. While it's about an hour long, it's worth it.

Enjoy!